McCallister

 

Can you believe it? We are almost finished with 2025! The year has been *something* but overall I've really enjoyed the memories I've made with my family and the opportunities I've had as a creator. It's probably the main reason why I haven't had as much time to post here! While it's been a little quieter, I'm still happy to update this blog with my favorite outfits and this Selkie dress has a special place in my heart. I wore it for our 2025 holiday cards and decided to snap a few solo shots for this post. If you read my last blog, this is the exact same dress but in a holiday themed plaid print.

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- Steve Madden

As I've mentioned before, the Cupid dress from Selkie is probably my favorite style they offer. Although you can't wear a bra underneath (due to the corset back) I feel like the bodice is extremely supportive. In the Bats version of this dress I took a medium, which I now realize was a mistake. I'm wearing my usual size small in this version and it fits so much better! I ended up getting the small in the Bats too because I was swimming in the medium. I also decided not to bustle the sides of the dress to show you what it looks like unpinned. I think I like the bustled option better but I love that it has a bit of versatility. Unfortunately, this dress is currently sold out but they make it in many colors and prints. I can't decide if that's a good thing or not (definitely not for my wallet).

I'm planning on one more post for the year but in case it doesn't work out, I want to say happy holidays! I know this year was tough for so many of us and I'm just glad that you're here and that we get to connect in this very small but very meaningful way. Sending you the best for the rest of the year and for 2026!

xoxo

Ashley

Sky Full of Bats

 

Now that I've mourned the passing of Halloween this year I can focus on other things: mostly spooky inspired things. Selkie recently dropped this Bats and the Bees print so of course I had to grab something to add to my collection. This is my first Cupid dress from them but certainly not my last. I feel like an absolute princess!

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- Steve Madden

Bag- Wicker Darling

Hat- old

Bracelet- Forever 21

The Cupid dress has so many stunning features that I don't know where to start! The bodice is a true corset with boning and a lace up back. The bust features underwire and bust cups (not my favorite) and the skirt is voluminous with the option to bustle it. I'm currently wearing it bustled but it looks beautiful on its own.

What I love: The print is my favorite print Selkie has ever offered. It's feminine but also spooky so it speaks right to my soul. I love the corset bodice. I'm not wearing anything underneath and I feel gorgeous and comfortable. I will also buy everything with a basque waist because it's always flattering on me. I truly love so many things about this dress and hope to add more to my closet soon!

What I'm not loving: As I mentioned earlier, the bust cups. I know that every body is different and unfortunately, I have to size up to get my bust to fit into cups. I'm a straightforward size small in Selkie but I sized up to a medium for this one. I kinda wish I hadn't because I can completely close the corset back and it still feels big. I'm also not a big fan of the gold lace trim but I can live with that.

You can find many different pieces in this print and lots of other Cupid dresses on the Selkie website now. What version of the Cupid dress should I grab next?

xoxo

Ashley

Pastel Goth

 

All my spooky friends know that pastel goth is a thing! Spring colors are lovely but they look even better paired with black. One of my favorite small businesses, Lively Ghosts, has lots of pastel goth items for your wardrobe and your home. This corset and picnic basket are just a few of the spooky cute items that they offer!

Corset- c/o Lively Ghosts (use code SCB10 for a discount)

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- Dr. Martens

Hat- The Beheaded

Picnic basket- c/o Lively Ghosts (use code SCB10 for a discount)

The mysticism corset is the perfect pastel purple shade and has lace along the neckline, boning in the front bodice and a ribbon lacing in the back. I have this corset in multiple shades and I'm wearing a medium here. I feel like I could probably take a small but I like having a little room to wear items underneath it. It's probably the most comfortable corset I own and I always get compliments when I wear them!

The pink version of the haunted hallows picnic basket is limited edition so I'm glad I was able to snag one! It's *huge* so it's perfect for a picnic or for storing things in your home. The inside has this beautiful spiderweb lining so it's definitely on theme. Bianca is already taking ownership of this basket because pink is her favorite color. How could I deny her?

You can find all kinds of size inclusive clothing, accessories, home goods and more over at Lively Ghosts and make sure to use code SCB10 for a discount on whatever you purchase. Hope you have a spooky spring!

xoxo

Ashley

Thistlebloom

 

There's nothing that inspires me to wear black more than summer. I'm just counting the days until Halloween at this point, I only have to wait one more season! Since fall is basically a *little* less hot than our summers, I lean in hard to my spooky yet summer functional wardrobe. And you know who does that best? Lively Ghosts. I love their shop and this thistlebloom corset is one of my favorite pieces they've ever made.

Dress- Selkie

Corset- Lively Ghosts (use code SCB10 for a discount)

Shoes- Diego's

The thistlebloom corset is made from a sturdy fabric and features boning built inside, lace detail at the neckline, grommet and bow detail at the straps and a lace back closure with satin ribbon. I saw this corset runs a little small so I went with a medium and it's a great fit. I love how it looks paired with this Selkie dress but I've also worn it with a peasant sleeve top and shorts and it was such a great look. Seriously, I feel like I could add this piece to so many things in my closet!

You can find this piece (and almost everything else on their site) in sizes XS-5X. If you want to save an additional 10% off your purchase, make sure you use code SCB10. I saw some sneaky info on Lively Ghosts social media that this corset should be coming in other colors soon! Here's to hoping we get a red or an orange version...

xoxo

Ashley

Brunch Market

 

Feeling like this is the most color I've worn all year! As a lover of all the spooky things you would think I would stray away from pastel colors. While I do normally prefer a darker color story, my style encompasses many things and I would hate to put myself in a box. I saw my BFF Sammi wearing this dress and I felt inspired to twin with her. We may be thousands of miles apart but I love the idea of us being connected by our wardrobes.

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- c/o Charlie Stone

Hat- Amazon

Bag- Olli Ella

While I have quite an extensive Selkie collection, this is my first Market dress. Sammi was singing the praises of this style and she was right on the money! The Market dress is a light cotton fabric that features puff sleeves with a bow detail, high waist bodice, voluminous skirt with side pockets, an attached back bow detail and a back zippered closure. I love the silhouette of this dress but I'm mostly in love with the fact that it has pockets. You can't see it but I'm holding my phone, keys and my camera remote in those pockets! I'm wearing a size small and honestly, I feel like I could have sized down to an XS. Most of my Selkie dresses are size small or medium but this dress runs a little bigger.

The Brunch Market dress is available in sizes XXS-6X and if you're not a big fan of the colors, they do offer it in a few other prints! This might be the first Market dress in my collection but I feel like it won't be the last...

xoxo

Ashley

Jane Eyre

Are you ready for the holidays yet? I can't say I'm there but I'm doing my best to get into the spirit with my outfits. This Selkie dress was an addition to my closet last year but I feel like it didn't really get its moment. The day dress style is my absolute favorite: it's made from a comfortable cotton, has a great silhouette and incredible fit. The festive plaid print gives me hope that I'll catch some of that Christmas cheer people keep telling me about.

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- Modcloth (old)

Hat- vintage

Bag- c/o Betsey Johnson (old but pink version is available)

Lipstick- Sephora Collection Cream Lip Satin in Always Red

Selkie's sizing has always been a little complicated for me. I have sizes XS-M in day dresses so I'm always worried that my purchase will not fit when I get it. I purchased a size small and this was the perfect fit. Because of the wide neckline, I cannot wear a normal bra but I have a longline bra that I love so it's not a dealbreaker for me. As much as I love this silhouette I only wish it had pockets! That would seriously take this dress into the *perfect* category for me. Here's to hoping they eventually make that change!

This weekend is full of theme parks, family functions and holiday decorating so I'll be looking forward to enjoying these next few days (and hopefully resting well afterwards)!

xoxo

Ashley 

Water Lilies

 

The unprecedented California rain brought us the most beautiful start to spring. I love the green hills and the tall grass, things I don't really get to see much where I live. Selkie recently released their Giverny Claude Monet collection and this Water Lilies day dress was calling my name. This cut is so flattering on all body types (especially us busty people) and Monet is one of my favorite painters. Who wouldn't want to wear one of their favorite works of art?

Dress- Selkie

Shoes- c/o Charlie Stone Shoes

Hat- Amazon

Bag- Olli Ella

The day dress is made from a lightweight cotton and features puff sleeves, a drawstring neckline, princess seams and a below the knee midi skirt. I'm wearing a size medium, which comfortably fits but I think I would probably size down in my next day dress. I still long for pockets but it's not a dealbreaker because I love this cut so much. You can find this dress in sizes XXS-6X and it's also available in other Monet prints. If the day dress isn't your thing, you can find other pieces with the Water Lilies print as well!

xoxo

Ashley